Bullying Helpline
Bullying...As a Parent, What Can I Do? |
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o Assure your child that the problem will be addressed - There are two sides to every story o Gather as many details as possible - Where did it happen? When did it occur? Who was there? How did the interaction begin? o Write down when your child was bullied. This will help to show that there is a pattern and that it is not just a one time event. Communicate with the school : o Encourage your child to speak to his/her teacher or school counselor verbally or in writing o If your child is not comfortable speaking up, you can contact your child’s teacher or school counselor o Continue to maintain open communication with school personnel Encourage your child to use strategies that they have learned : o Tell the bully to stop (action) in a firm, calm voice o Walk away from uncomfortable situations o Know that it is not your fault o Tell adults at home and at school o Hang out with people who will let you be you o Don't be a bully yourself What to do if your child may be bullying: o Talk clearly about behaviors that encourage positive relationships o Avoid physical punishments o Reduce the amount of TV and video game violence o Determine whether or not your child is being mistreated - Sometimes bullying can be a reaction to hurt, fearful or angry emotions Additional resources: www.stopbullyingnow.com www.stopcyberbullying.org |